as someone new to faeries, who want work with very bad... how do you get start?

step 1. do not.

OK, half joke.
there is reason people say we danger and unpredictable. actually, very many reason.
not only do many people not take time learn how interact, how things work for us, but even that vary wildly. we all individual too - rules that keep you safe with some faery might get you in serious trouble with others, and so is opposite true.

before let faery in life, need read and try understand things from our view. learn from many faery source - from old folklore to modern blogs. not take any single one as whole truth: no one source can be. faery mean so many things to so many people, and even all us who under faery umbrella can be so different that only vaguely recognise each other as kin. we can not even agree on how spell! fairy, faerie, fae, fey, faery... endless, you know.

so, breathe.
this site mostly concern our court's experience, but will also see bits from folklore and compare with others' experiences.
but we not have "only truth", because no such thing exist. please, explore all around. :)